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Positivelove.ca is a dating website for people living with HIV. The goal of Positivelove.ca is to help you find valuable connections that make a tremendous positive difference in your life, no matter where you live. Here are some frequently asked questions to assist you to use Positivelove.ca

1. Go to Sign Up

2. Click, “I Agree & Acknowledge”

3. Enter your Login Information to Create Account

4. You will receive an email when your account is approved.

5. When your account is approved, you can login and continue to update your personal information and your profile.

6. When you have completed your profile, you must save it.

7. To edit your profile, go to My Profile and make your edits

Pick a strong password of a minimum of eight characters. Use a mix of alphabetical and numeric characters, use a combination of upper and lower case, use symbols if the systems allow. Be careful on public or shared computers, and make sure to log out after browsing.

The only way other members can find out your email address is to give it to them yourself.

As you meet people online, be careful of how much personal information you share with others until you feel fully confident and comfortable with them. Listen and trust your gut instinct if you think the person is not fully honest with you.   

With COVID-19, people living with HIV are further isolated as most in-person support groups are not functioning. If you are new to a dating site, invest some time in your profile. First impressions count. If you are not sure how to describe yourself in your profile, ask your friends, family, and/or colleagues to assist you. It can be fun and a great place to meet other like-minded people. 

Dating does not have to be lonely. Please invite your friends to join and make it a wholesome, fun experience. Everyone is here for the same reason, be yourself, have a great time.  

We have made it a priority to keep scammers and undesirable people out of the site. At Sign-up, we have "Agree and Acknowledge" of HIV status to rule out HIV -negative status people. We have in-built questions that are only relevant for people living with HIV to weed out people not living with HIV. However, it is impossible to make a full-proof online dating site. Would you please report to us anyone who sends HIV/AIDS phobic, threatening, rude, and lewd messages?

If someone harasses, bully and threatens you, report them to us immediately, and they will be permanently banned.

Do not send unsolicited "sexual messages" and or lewd, crude messages to others, and you will be permanently banned once they report you.

GIPA is greater involvement of people living with HIV/AIDS, and MIPA is meaningful in people living with HIV/AIDS. This means that for any project and or research created for people living with HIV, it must have significant involvement of people living with HIV from beginning to end. 

GIPA. (2007). The Greater Involvement of People Living with HIV (GIPA): UNAIDS Policy Brief (2007) 

Global Network of People Living with HIV. Meaningful engagement – GNP+ (gnpplus.net) 

U=U or Undetectable equals Untransmittable, which means if you are HIV positive, take anti-HIV treatment, and maintain an undetectable viral load, you can have sex knowing that you won't pass HIV to your sex partner(s). 

Prevention, Access Campaign. (2021).COMMUNITY PARTNERS | prevention (preventionaccess.org)  

CATIE. (2017)U=U | CATIE - Canada's source for HIV and hepatitis C information

U=U will prevent HIV transmission between HIV undetectable persons, but it does not prevent the transmission of other sexually transmitted infections (STIs). When you meet a new HIV-positive partner (s) in person, discuss with your partner(s) on condom or other barrier methods to reduce and prevent STIs infections.

Login to your account.

1. Open your web browser, go to and login to your account.

2. Click on Account Status display name in the top right corner of your screen.

3.Next to Account Status select, “Cancel my account”, and if you are sure, click “Yes” and “Deactivate”   

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What is Vedic astrology?

Vedic Astrology is the study of the effect of subtle energies from above that affects and impacts our emotions, and all living being, plants, animals around us including the earth.  In Vedic astrology, it is also connected to yoga practices, diet, career, and health.  In Vedic astrology, we look at the moon signs, as the moon circles the earth once every 27 days. As the moon circles the earth, it moves through each Nakshatra each day.  There are 12 zodiacs (sun) signs, but there are 27 Nakshatra star constellations that are influenced by the moon or feminine energy. 

To learn more about Vedic Astrology, here is an excellent book. Frawley. D. (2007). Ayurvedic Astrology: Self-healing Through the Stars

27 Nakshatra (birth stars). For more information, refer to; https://anandastrology.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/nakshatra-guide-freebie.pdf

Sincerely,
Positivelove team